When your son or daughter leaves home for the first time to attend university, it can be an upheaval for you both.
A new student has to deal with different living arrangements, managing their money and taking on new responsibilities. They may have a variety of concerns, from finding the nearest supermarket to living up to their academic expectations.
For the most part students enjoy their studies, but there are times when things do not go as expected. As a parent or guardian, understanding the pressures a new undergraduate faces is helpful both to yourself and the student. Parents and guardians who understand the ups and downs of the first year at university are better able to help their child with the transition from school or college.
Typical issues facing new students during their first year at university might include:
If your son or daughter is feeling homesick, let them know you sympathise but encourage them to stick it out or they may find it even more difficult to settle in. Remind them that the clubs and societies run by the Union of Kingston Students are a great way to meet people and make new friends.
Make sure your son or daughter has registered with a doctor, which will make things easier if they do feel ill. There are also some vaccines they ought to have before starting at Kingston.
If your child is disappointed with their grades, remind them that our site-based Academic Skills Centres can provide support and advice.
If your son or daughter is finding the time of year is getting them down, remind them that the Fitness Centre includes lots of indoor dance and aerobics classes, which aren't weather dependent!
If you think your son or daughter may have financial worries, remind them that there is plenty of help and advice on fees and funding, including money management talks and workshops.
Remember that the careers and employability service is available if your son or daughter needs help finding a summer job and accommodation support is available to offer advice with house-hunting.
Kingston University
Tel: +44 (0)20 8417 9000
Kingston University
Tel: +44 (0)20 8417 9000